Usher and Usher
Posted by Media Outrage on July 8, 2008
Usher and his son Usher Raymond V cover the August issue of Essence. Here’s what Usher had to say about his family….
Via BlackCelebKids:
On being a father [Usher] says, “He’s gonna admire me, he’s gonna look up to me. He’s gonna say, ‘I wanna be’ or he should say – ‘I wanna be like my father.”
When asked about his marriage to Tameka, Usher responds, “They think that it was forced. I’ve heard a lot of comments like, “Oh, she trapped him.” “He got a baby by her, and then she’s married and she’s set for life.No. She wasn’t pregnant when I asked her to marry me. There’s some sort of huge conspiracy over this, the fact that I made these choices in my life. No I grew older. As a man, I have to take responsibility and take a hold of my life. I’m accountable for what happens to my life now.”
Mediaoutrage- Usher sounds like he is defending his choice to marry Tameka which shouldn’t be. Let folk speculate and criticize all day because at the end of the day you married her and love her so who cares what we or anyone else thinks.

July 8, 2008 at 1:53 pm
“The lady doth protest to much, methinks.”
Who is Usher trying to convince, us or himself. If he has to explain that hard his reasonings for marrying Tameka, something is amiss. He is trying to hard to make folk believe that his marriage is true.
July 8, 2008 at 1:59 pm
Agreed! He don’t love that woman. I still believe she has or had some type of black mail material on him. Like maybe some homo sexual tape like superhead claims she saw. who knows but it just doesn’t make sense to keep defending your love.
July 8, 2008 at 2:09 pm
Why is still explaining why he married her?! Do we really give a f&ck? No, hell if married Diddy I wouldn’t care…it’s about his music and career! What happenned to his creativity?! I guess balancing fatherhood, a marriage and being a celebrity is something he is still juggling!
July 8, 2008 at 2:09 pm
I wouldn’t doubt it Yasmine. Now that would be a mess for real.
July 8, 2008 at 2:34 pm
I am so over Usher and his marital bliss…I have been married for 8 years myself and I have never felt the need to confess my love to anyone other than my spouse…either it is or it isn’t, plain and simple. He needs to stop talking about his marriage and stop responding to all the questions and comments. When a person constantly explains the situation over and over again they usually are trying to convince themselves and find justification for what they did!
At the end of the day who really cares!
July 8, 2008 at 2:41 pm
Personally This shit is stupid to keep defending that he married a M.I.L.F who cares because your album sucks and you need to improve that…….
PRESSPRICKS.COM
July 8, 2008 at 2:49 pm
I MUST SAY THE BABY IS VERY CUTE!! SO TOOK ON MOST OF USHER GENES.
I DONT GIVE A SHIT WHY HE MARRIED THE MONKEY HE IS THE ONE THAT HAS TO FEED HER BANNANA’S WHEN SHE IS HUNGRY!!
THEY WILL HAVE TO PUT IN SOME DECADES FOR ME TO BELIEVE IT IS REAL.
July 8, 2008 at 3:05 pm
VALIDATE YOURSELF USHER …STOP WORRYING ABOUT THE OPINIONS OF OTHERS B/C OPINIONS ARE JUST THAT OPINIONS AND SHOULD NEVER BE AN ADDITION TO HOW U VIEW YOURSELF AND YOUR SITUATION.
THE DEVIL IS A LIE…CHECK MY BOOK OUT MO PEOPLE@MYSPACE.COM/ginetta22..
July 8, 2008 at 3:19 pm
Who does he think he’s fooling..not that anyone gives a flying hoot..but really though…if you’re constantly explaining yourself to the public as to why you chose to marry this woman..then you obviously aren’t too sure about the relationship yourself..quit it already..ya had a kid…raise it..stick to making more music instead of trying to convince us you’re truly in love with this creature.
July 8, 2008 at 4:21 pm
I think this nucca is really gay and he is afraid to step out the dang closet, so he married Tameka to cover his double life up! That’s why he keeps bringing up the fact that he is so happy with his marriage…whatever I give it less than 5 years!
July 8, 2008 at 6:01 pm
U know what……if this ain’t the most photoshopped pic I ever seen….DAMN!
Usher big ole LEMONHEAD ain’t neva been that small!
July 8, 2008 at 6:48 pm
LMAO @ Beach Chick – You are so right…I met Usher a few years ago and his head is bigger than Tichina Arnold’s!
July 8, 2008 at 6:59 pm
LOL @ “I met Usher a few years ago and his head is bigger than Tichina Arnold’s!” LOL
July 8, 2008 at 9:25 pm
notice not once did he mention love. he knows he married her ass cause she was pregnant and her husband wasnt raising ushers seed. he said responsibility, never said i couldnt live without her. that’s y he better jonetta to come back so she can put tameka out the house.
oh and by the way i think he is gay too. didnt wendy williams bring his ass out on her show back when he was dating chili?
July 8, 2008 at 10:26 pm
HOW MANY TIMES THAT USHER PEOPLE SAID THAT HE IS NOT GAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY NOW THE BABY IS CUTIE SO GET USE TO IT HIS SON IS GOING TO BE AROUND JUST LIKE HIS DAD NO COMMITE ABOUT HIS WIFE SHE THERE AND SHE IS HAPPY WITH HER KIDS AND OF COUSE USHER. DAME LEAVE HIS FAMILY ALONE.WENDY WILLIAMS IS GAY SHE JUST DONT LOOK IN THE MERROR AND SEE THAT SHE LOOKED LIKJE A MEN. AND SHE DONT HAVE A LIFE AND HER HUSBAND IS CHEATTING ON HER AZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ.
July 8, 2008 at 10:32 pm
@ Sweets……????????????????????
July 8, 2008 at 11:02 pm
whaaaaat????
July 8, 2008 at 11:14 pm
That baby is so darn cute!!!
He looks like a little ventriloquist doll!!
July 9, 2008 at 1:06 am
I think yall hit the nail on the head…….Usher is gay. Therfore I change my opinion on his love for his wife. I think Usher does love him. Tomeka was Tommy before the operation. Its official Usher is realy in love with his “life partner” Tomeka, formaly known as Tommy.
Now, if you’ll excuse me, I’m gonna go home and put some water in Buc Nasty’s mamma’s dish, Good Evening
July 9, 2008 at 1:10 am
@ beach chic & 1coolazzchick:
I turd that motion……What……………The …………………F@&k
July 9, 2008 at 10:45 am
These folks need to leave the photoshopping alone. Usher’s face has been worked over. Gorgeous baby though.