Explains Everything
Posted by Media Outrage on July 10, 2008
Will Smith spoke candidly to a magazine in the UK about his open relationship with his wife Jada. Here’s what he had to say:
Via NowMagazine:
Will Smith reckons it’s healthy to fancy other people when you’re married and has no qualms telling his wife when he does.
The actor – who tied the knot with Jada Pinkett Smith 11 years ago – is determined to be honest about how he feels.
‘Our perspective is, you don’t avoid what’s natural and you’re going to be attracted to people,’ Will explains.
‘So sometimes we have the discussion: “Wow, this or that girl is freaking gorgeous”. I’m not going to say anything to my buddies that’s any different than what I say to my wife.’
And Will, 39, reckons he’ll tell Jada – and she’ll tell him – if they ever feel the need to have sex with others. Each will say: ‘I’m not going to do it if you don’t approve of it,’ he says.
But Will’s not sure what he’d do if one day Jada, 38, confides that she does want to take a lover.‘I don’t know how I’d feel,’ he confesses. ‘But I know I would react better than if I found out about it afterwards.’
Mediaoutrage- Interesting. So that completely explains this, and this, and this. Do any of you get down with that swinging ish?
July 10, 2008 at 10:04 pm
ill have to take the 5th on this.
July 10, 2008 at 10:20 pm
Hell no i wouldnt get down with that ish. My husband will be my husband only
July 10, 2008 at 11:10 pm
Hmmm…
Very interesting…and here’s why…
It’s been rumored in Hollywood (and allegedly verified) that they have an “open” relationship, and have had one for years. (A real freaky one too!!!) In fact, it’s been discussed they “import” their folks from foreign countries, so that gossip is minimized. That’s the inside scoop.
Now we hear this stuff about he and his “HANCOCK” co-star Charlize Theron. Allegedly, they are flirting with danger together, if not already consummated.
Notice all the new photos of Jada or Jada and Will together…Jada is looking mighty taxed these days…look at her face!! Where has the vibrance gone?
It could be ANYTHING, but it’s just quite a coincidence that all of this is happening now.
Here’s my guess…
They are coming clean, because something potentially embarrassing is about to hit the fan. The worry is that this could ruin Will’s “good guy” image, so their way of dealing with it is to stay ahead of it!! Then they will be able to say, “We already told you this!”
The key to rolling in Hollywood is to keep the predators off your back!!! The way to do IT is to just say IT!!
Remember when…
Denzel did it.
Eric Benet did it.
Robert Downey Jr. did it.
Pamela Sue Anderson did it.
A host of others did it.
Expect the W & J details to surface by Christmas…
OBTW…Brace yourself…the outcome of all this could be disappointing.
July 10, 2008 at 11:17 pm
if it works for them and thats their thing, who are we to judge?
July 11, 2008 at 2:27 am
WTF???? so the rumors are true….Why am I not too surprised cause Jada really just seems like that down ass chick that will fgo for something like that! I have always heard tha they did this ish….more power to them is all I can say! I’m dissappointed is all…….!
And no MO I don’t get down with that swinging ish……it ain’t right!
July 11, 2008 at 3:58 am
@1coolazzchic —
No judgement made…I can appreciate that.
isn’t it funny though…we live in different places all over the country and everybody hears the same rumor?
Hmm…
Well…one thing for sure…
Any life choices that you make, you are made accountable for them.
Let’s hope they continue to thrive or recover.
I really like them together.
I would be heartbroken if they split.
July 11, 2008 at 4:03 am
some couples can handle that. im saying…im a sensual exploratory person. and thats all ill say about that. its all about respect and a persons bullshit level.
July 11, 2008 at 12:25 pm
WELL IT’S NOT RIGHT BEFORE GOD AND THAT IS ALL I HAVE TO SAY!
ANY ONE THAT CHEATS ON THERE MATE OR NOT ALLOWED TO BRING THAT SHIT TO MY HOUSE.
@Rocksee: CAN YOU PLEASE Minimize the bull shit!!!
July 11, 2008 at 1:09 pm
@ Cupcake Stl…
I’VE BEEN WAITING FOR YOU…
I thought you were going to take the back door out, but it looks like you’re attempting to step up…good for you!
OK…
You’re still hurting from the IGNANT MONEY blog…
Girlfriend…
GET OVER IT AND GET OVER YOURSELF!!
The purpose of this forum is for democratic bloggers to speak what’s on their mind.
Don’t hate me ’cause your schtick borderlines illiterate.
If you can’t understand and appreciate what I have to say, don’t respond.
I read all that ignorant mess you write and value it for what it is…
…low quality entertainment.
Look…
…the only people that have in say in whether or not I blog or how I blog is M.O.
When THEY move, I move…just like that!
This is supposed to be about having FUN…expressing OPINIONS…encouraging CAMARADERIE…contributing to GROWTH, not manifesting your own insecurities.
Why don’t you get it Sis?
M.O. is providing us an opportunity LEARN through snickers and sarcasm…it’s a brilliant concept!!
Shall we talk about minimizing the Bull…?
Then let me cut & paste every single blog you’ve ever posted….
…yet wait…
…it’s not for me or anyone else to say.
This is America…free democracy…constitutional amendments to protect my rights…even yours.
In the words of the great Rodney King, “Can’t we all just get along?”
OBTW…
I will respond just like this to EVERY derogatory comment you make towards me and about me.
If you’re tired of hearing my “bull $%^*”, then stop slinging your own “bull & ^%$”.
I come in peace…
…but will not be defamed.
P.S. To borrow you words…Is it “right before God” for you to blog the way you do?
July 11, 2008 at 1:12 pm
It’s an uderstanding that they have between themselves..
My opinion is It’s still a f^cked up way 2 live..
It’s an open willingness to violate what they got 1st under God 2nd between themselves 3rd with them kids……
I know it’s hollywood and shyt like that goes on in darker places;(like that crazy uncle ya got that has like 5 kids and you didn’t find out till the funeral)..
But the standard that I have for me is for me I guess… Im not with that bullshyt.. Id rather get all that out my system b4 I place jewlry on fingers…. In the end it draws 2 much drama….
I’m a dude and I want no part in it..
July 11, 2008 at 1:12 pm
@ You know who the fu*k you are!! Well let me begin by saying;
Insecurity is not a word that applies to women like me.
Who the fu*k said you was a player. cause i aint seen your ass at not one players ball.
Who the fu*k said i hated you?? cause i dont even hate the devil.
My perception of you is only that you got shit in you mouth and mind.
We do savage people, and blog and tell the truth ON THIS SITE.
If you call those long ass speeches entertainment then get a new job. Cause i make people laugh.
MLK AINT GOT SHIT TO DO WITH YOUR WAKE ASS SPEECHES.
THE ONLY THING WE GOT IN COMMON IS WE BOTH HAVE A PUS*Y!!
YOU A FAKE ASS THAT IS WHY YOU HAVE TO DRESS SHIT UP.
I AM FROM THE HOOD AM THE HOOD BUT I KNOW HOW TO ACT AND SHUT TRICKS LIKE YOU DOWN EVERY DAY
(IT’S MY JOB) CAUSE I REP STL BUT I AM FROM ESTL.
AND READ A BOOK HA HA. THAT IS GOOD CASUE I AM A BOOK THAT YOU WILL READ ONE DAY.
LIFE IS A BITCH AND I AM THAT WOMEN.
July 11, 2008 at 1:18 pm
@ Rocksee: you really need to get that bull shit out of here.
lo unico que es ignorante es que no sabes hablar otro idioma, mas que el ingles
you so smart read that trick
July 11, 2008 at 1:19 pm
Oh Lawd LOL help them yall are tripping its not serious yall
July 11, 2008 at 1:37 pm
@ Yasmine:
LOL…
Lawdy , Lawdy , I’m with you…
You hit it right on the head…it’s not that serious.
July 11, 2008 at 1:41 pm
@ Cupcake…
I’m waiting my Grand Finale out…just to see where this goes…
…but I couldn’t resist on this one.
lol
Your Spanish is a mess too!
FYI…
I speak 3 languages…
French…Spanish…and of course English.
lol
You make me crack up…
I say we just bury the hatchet and get back to business…
…after my Grand Finale!!
LOL
July 11, 2008 at 1:45 pm
I love all you..yall are so funny!!!!
July 11, 2008 at 1:46 pm
@ Cupcake –
I know…I know…
…you’re at the keyboard waitng…
Girl I got to take a break…wanna catch the morning sun for my run through “The Hills”.
Get wit cha’ later!
July 11, 2008 at 1:46 pm
@rocksee @yasmine: Yall right it not that serious but she started.
And i will say i am done with it I wont do it no more; just please dont right so long
July 11, 2008 at 1:47 pm
I know a married couple like that…hell if that’s what keeps the fire in their marriage! Whateva!
July 11, 2008 at 1:48 pm
Fine females should not argue…..
July 11, 2008 at 1:48 pm
Cupcake Stl – Don’t worry about it..I hate the long comments too!
July 11, 2008 at 2:02 pm
Rocksee and cupacake….
Aight now you can kiss and make up..
LOL
Na for 4real Kiss…. Ok touch her breast.. like that.. yea hold that I’m a get my camera…
LOL!!!!!!!
July 11, 2008 at 2:12 pm
BEatbanga LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! @ “Na for 4real Kiss…. Ok touch her breast.. like that.. yea hold that I’m a get my camera…” LMAO LOL LOL you stupid wooo im getting my laugh this morning. wow just to think me and sweetthang used to go back and forth lol
July 11, 2008 at 2:20 pm
Beatbanga, you is ignant for real.
I am reading the comments and was like WOOOOOOWWWW!!
Ok now ya’ll gonna make me go back and read the post on Ignant Money. WoooWW!!
I don’t know Ms. Rocksee, but from the post see seems to be say she has a inside source or is the source in the goings on in Hollywood.
And Cupcake thinks its a bunch of Bullsugga!
Alright well I’m gonna do like Jesse Jackson should have done and not speak what I’m thinking. Let me go back and read and reserve comment for later.
Peace, be still!!
July 11, 2008 at 2:22 pm
LOL @ “Peace, be still!!”
July 11, 2008 at 2:28 pm
Yasmine, you are so right. I remember that, LOL.
I’m cracking up too. I know M.O. watching this thang like a tennis match.
Ok let me weigh in on this Will and Jada thang.
I’m single and have lived a while. Been there done that. Ok, now this is no more than what we have talked about before. So where is there an argument. Some people believed it others said nawwww can’t be, not Will. Everybody reserves the right to comment how they see fit. I can respect you and your way of thinking because its just that its your way of thinking. Now when your ‘ish turn factual then I might concede your point.
All and all I’m with 1coolazzchic. None of us have a Heaven or Hell to put anybody in. If we did, a whole lot more folk would be burning right now. Nevertheless, they do what they do.
July 11, 2008 at 2:29 pm
Hey might as well make some paper on it…
Any of you ladies that wanna jump in it’s cool, I’m a get my lights…
We can start a classy new magazine. It would be filled with intelligent non blond or white women that wanna strip and talk aboout important social issues and then argue about them…
Like playboy for women of color…. LOL!!!
I love it…
July 11, 2008 at 2:50 pm
My typos, gotta love ‘em. Anyway I went back over and read the post on Ignant money. That apparently was when I was out for a few days.
All I can say is wooooowww again. Can’t really form an opinion so I will precede from the present.
July 11, 2008 at 3:04 pm
Beatbanga 77 – that is a great idea..but I am thinking there has got to be some hot men in there too!
July 11, 2008 at 3:05 pm
So Beatbanga77 – I’ll get the camera and you work it!
July 11, 2008 at 3:15 pm
Ms. E you a mess, but now don’t get me started cause we will have a full fledge business with Beatbanga and his idea, LOL.
July 11, 2008 at 3:57 pm
W2m – All the guys on here are always talking about serving footlongs and ish…I just decided it’s time for the ladies to work the wheel!
July 11, 2008 at 4:03 pm
I know right.
Girl I won’t even get started cause a sista got some history. But again that idea Beatbanga had ain’t half bad, LOL. Would be like Black Enterprise but with an erotic twist and the tripped out part would be that nobody could dispute the intelligence of the women.
Ok I’m gonne cuckoo cause its Friday, let me pull it back in.
July 11, 2008 at 4:06 pm
Thats right Ms E.! I heard someone mention my little car muffler aka footlong aka zulu warrior with the spear aka black momba snake i can hear him hissing right now lol
July 11, 2008 at 4:06 pm
I’ll go cuokoo with you W2M…
My thing would be how much nudity would be showing?…I mean are you going to argue over social issues on one page or a tity on the other or go all out and Argue over equality and the next page have cooch and dick flying everywhere?….
July 11, 2008 at 5:17 pm
wow and i like totally missed this whole thing…..i miss everything. ill brb lemme go to ignant money. to be continued….
July 11, 2008 at 5:25 pm
wow. i dont even see where it popped off. my sistahs for real, its not that serious.