Posted by Media Outrage on October 2, 2009
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ucanb2 said
Yep… I agree it is very different once you occupy the same space at the same time on a regular basis!
There have been times when I have wanted to smack the shit out of my husband for not putting stuff back where it belongs. ( LIKE A MAJIC GENIE IS GONNA POP OUT AND PUT IT BACK)!!!
lowridaz said
men will be men, lol i use to get pissed, cause i like my house clean at all times, im a neat freak, and i use to get pissed , now i dont even bother,
Truly23 said
Like the two of you, this man that’s all I’m going to say. But what really gets me steamed is
when he put important papers down somewhere either to lose them completely or where the lil one can get up to them and tear them the hell up.
Truly23 said
But to answer the topic truthfully, put up with each other ish respectfully and have real open communication about relevant issues and not just venting and pointing fingers at one another.
brynnrock said
Lowridaz, I have always been a neat freak and very clean. How do you handle I don’t even bother. I am 41 y.o. and I am still the same way with my house has to be right, clean and in order. From the towels, sheets, bedspeads, carpets, woodwork etc. I love a clean car, house and myself and man! It makes me feel good. How did you relax on that shit, I know my husband would love that shit.LOL
MissTX85 said
Glad I ain’t got to deal with that craziness cause I’d lose my damn mind!!
I don’t even like fixing a man a plate, my daddy included. So, I’d definitely go crazy if I had to clean up behind one!!
More power to the above ladies!! LOL!
thats..hawt said
its hard but now than me and my man live together we fight alot..mainly about money..we split the rent and he pays the cable and food and little stuff but then I just dont feel its enough…so maybe i am being a beoawtch but i dont know.. but i feel a man should be able to support you in all these ways…plus i clean the house like crazy and feed the dogs and the cats and the fish and the bunny and the rat…man…thats crazyyyy
Yeah I Said It said
Call me selfish as hell cause I do not, I repeat I do not want to share my space with anyone. Don’t bring your toothbrush, shoes, draws, pencils, pen, paper, or deodrant for a sleep over. If you do it’s over. Don’t ask for breakfast, lunch, don’t use the phone, don’t ask to watch the game,take home a plate, if you do it’s over. I don’t want to clean behind men, cook for them or let them sleep on my furniture. And don’t visit after I wash towels and sheets, and clean the bathrooms. If you do it’s over.Don’t use the phone, cups, drink coffee, as a matter of fact it’s booty calls and make sure you wear a watch so you will know what time you have to go home. If you forget to get up and go I will remind you and if I do it’s over.
Now that we have that established, Where is 2020.
Lowridaz said
Brynnrock, when i said i dont even bother, trust me, does not mean i gave up or turn my head, i gave up on arguing and stressing myself out over it, i have always been a neat freak and doesnt matter, i keep my home clean , we have a 3 bedroom home, and its only me and my husband there, he is not a pig, but at times he just dont pick up after himself, i dont bother gettin stressed, i keep my house very clean, and YES i am a neat freak, and cannot stand anyone from outside stepping in my house touching nothing, i relax on it, and do what i always do, keep my shit on point, because why get stressed and argue and irritated your only hurting yourself, and your own health, not relaxing is stressing only you. I learn to deal with situations, stress will never have me lookin old or sick.
Lowridaz said
I have never been the stressing, argumentive type of woman anyhow, I always had a bright side to whatever, little things like him leaving cups, socks or something around is nothin to stress over, i use to blow air out my mouth an say to him “why are you so messy” because i am a neat freak, as far as him and the car being clean, i never worry over those things, he keeps both cars on point, of course huh, lol so its not really a bad thing to take care of my husband, he takes care of me, hell he has picked up after me, so much more to life than stressing and arguing, and seeing or dating a man i may have that mentality , but this man is my husband, and i am his wife!